The Two Week Wait

July 24, 2012

The Two Week Wait Thread

It felt like we had waited so long to join the two week wait thread on the fertility forum and now we could finally do so!

Introducing ourselves and telling everyone our story, I met a lot of couples on the two week wait. The first page of the forum was filled with everyone’s names, followed by their test date and either a happy ‘cheerleader’ smiley or an animated ‘BFN’ (Big Fat Negative) smiley. 

It started of pretty good, lots of cheer-leading, shall we say but the further down the list you went, the less cheer-leading there was and the more BFN’s there were. 

We prayed we would have a cheer-leader smiley at the end of our name.

I remember my husband and I saying that we would wait until our official test date, August 5th 2011, to do our pregnancy test. Even though our consultant had said we could test on the 2nd, we were adamant to stick it out until the 5th. 


I have to say that I am very lucky in terms of work. Working for a large company, my boss had been fantastic throughout all of my treatment. She was understanding, sympathetic and a good listener. She allowed me time off to attend all of our appointments and when I told her that I wanted to use up my holidays so I could have the day of egg collection off, all of the two week wait off and a further week after that (to give me some time to get over a negative result if that was the case), she didn’t hesitate. In fact, she told me to speak to my GP, to see if they would give me a sick note for the time off, so I wouldn’t have to use up all my holidays. I didn’t think my GP would do this, but to my surprise he did. 

This was great news. It meant that if we did get a BFN, we could use my holidays to take some time out, gather our thoughts and decide on our next step.

Keeping Busy!

Going back to the two week wait, if you have read my earlier posts, you will know that since egg collection I hadn’t had a full nights sleep. However, following embryo transfer, that night I slept through! I think subconsciously, knowing that our embryo’s were back where they belonged might have helped. Maybe not, but maybe it did! 

The morning after embryo transfer, I was feeling good. Our two embryos, were hopefully settling in for the long run. I felt positive and kept visualising our baby growing inside me. 

Before we embarked on the two week wait, I knew in my mind that it would be hard to think of anything but our embryo’s. With this in mind, I decided to write a list of things to keep myself busy:

1. Cook something you have never cooked before

2. Make fairy cakes
3. Read a book
4. Watch at least one of the 9 films you have taped, but are yet to watch!
5. Go for a walk
6. Continue working on the photo scrapbook
7. Make chocolate cake
8. Start writing a book
9. Go to the crematorium and lay flowers down for mum
10. Don’t search online for pregnancy symptoms!

Ok, I know there are more interesting things to do in life than make a cake or read a book, but I didn’t want to do anything too strenuous! Anyways, I just figured I’ll put jump out of a plane or wing walk on my bucket list instead!

Frozen Embryos

The day after transfer, our embryologist called to let us know if we had any embryo’s that could be frozen. On the day of our transfer, he told us that we had 2 embryos that would definitely be frozen, so when he told us that in addition to those 2, he went on to freeze another 2 embryos the same day as our transfer as they were close to hatching we were delighted. But wait, he then went on to explain that the morning after our transfer, our 3 other embryos had expanded so they were also frozen. 

What does that mean?

Well, I’ll tell you what that means!

7 frozen embryos!

7 frosties!
7 seven snow babies!

However, you want to word it, we had 7 in the freezer! 

This was great news! My husband and I were so happy. I think we may have cried a little! Without, thinking too negatively, it meant that if this cycle failed, I wouldn’t have to go through egg collection again. Not for a while anyway. 

If you’ve read my previous post about our embryo transfer, then you’ll know by now that our embryologist has a habit of making us cry! In a good way! I’m pleased to say he didn’t disappoint with his next statement:

“You have multiple babies in the freezer! From an embryological point of view, your cycle has been perfect. I would be very surprised if you didn’t get pregnant from the 2 embryos you have on board!”

Doh! The water works came flooding out again! I must admit, hearing him say that made us feel so emotional and overwhelmed. We were trying so hard not to get our hopes up, knowing that if we did and the result was negative, we would have a big, long, hard fall, but we couldn’t help ourselves. We dreamt of our baby. Wondered what he or she would look like, whilst in the back of my back of my mind there was a tiny mini me fighting off those thoughts – down boy, down boy! Don’t get your hopes up! Stay sane! 

Bruised & Broke

Before embarking on our IVF journey, I have to be honest and admit that my husband and I have been through a lot together. We are in an age gap relationship. 27 years of age gap, to be precise, and after my mum passed away in 2005, a few months later I fell out with my family. All because my now husband is 27 years older than me. 

I was working a job that paid minimum wage. My husband was on the tail end of a divorce and came out of it with just his car. I was left homeless with nothing but a black bag full of clothes. 

Somehow though, we picked ourselves up. My husband used what little money he had to pay for us to stay in a budget hotel, so we wouldn’t have to sleep in his car. We worked all the hours we could.

I would sneak into the hotel swimming pool where I worked so I could have a shower, before wandering down to meet my husband and find somewhere to stay for the night. 

My husband came across a flat and after viewing it once, we promptly moved in. From then on in, I have to admit that I am pretty proud of all we have accomplished.

We didn’t have much to start with. A black and white TV stood on a wooden dining chair in the front room. We had a gorgeous green floral, worn out and tired looking sofa. I remember the picture on the TV would get smaller and smaller each day, until eventually it went altogether!

We had a double bed courtesy of our land lady. I emptied my black bag of clothes into the wooden wardrobe. My husband bought some cheap new clothes and hung them in his wardrobe. 

We were happy though. That’s all that mattered, plus we could have been worse off. At least we had a roof over heads. Many people in this world don’t, so who were we to complain?

I found myself a better job and have been with the same company now for almost 7 years. We have savings and I own my own car. 

5 years after my dad stopped speaking to me, we made up. Our relationship isn’t the best and my dad is no longer my dad anymore in the traditional sense, but at least he is back in my life. 

Even though, we had spent most of our savings and put a fair whack on our credit card to pay for our treatment, we remained optimistic. 

Monday, 25th July 2011

We decided to tell my husbands children (by his ex-wife) why there was a fridge full of drugs! When the time came though, we didn’t have to tell them. Children are so perceptive! My husbands daughter sent a text message to us the night before we were going to tell them. The text read:

“I think I know why you have been in and out of hospital. It’s because you want a baby”

Flabbergasted wasn’t the word! To our delight, my husbands children were both excited and happy for us. The thought of having another little brother or sister thrilled them. It thrilled me also that they used the term brother or sister not half brother or sister, just brother or sister.


After embryo transfer, the clinic had told me to rest for the first 2-4 days. Taking full advantage, I had my husband doing everything for me! It was great, so I was making the most of it! 

The clinic also advised to ensure I was drinking at least 2 litres of water a day and to continue eating a high protein diet or healthy diet. 

Regardless of the number 10 thing on my ‘keep busy’ list, I found myself searching online for pregnancy symptoms. I also found myself reassuring others on the two week wait that everything would be ok. Deep down though, I didn’t know if it would be. 

Desperately hoping it had worked, I remember that the closer it got to our official test date (OTD) the more insane I felt I was going! 

I did find one good thing online. Apparently, 1 day after a 5 day transfer your embryos should start to hatch out. 2 days after transfer they should start to attach themselves to a site on your uterus lining. 3 days after transfer, they should start to implant and start burying into the lining.

  • 4 days after transfer – Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
  • 5 days after transfer – Morula is completely implanted in the lining and has placental and fetal cells
  • 6
    days after transfer – Placental cells begin to secrete HCG (the pregnancy hormone) into the blood
  • 7
    days after transfer – More HCG is produced as fetus develops
  • 8
    days after transfer – More HCG is produced as fetus develops
  • 9
    days after transfer – HCG levels are now high enough to be detected on a  home pregnancy test  
(Please bear in mind that the information above is what happens with a 5 day transfer)

I remember thinking to myself, that I wish I could see inside my belly, to see what was going on! I hoped our embryos were making themselves at home and settling in for the next 9 months. I tried not to symptom spot but to be honest that’s all I did.


I didn’t really have any. Was this good? Was it bad? I didn’t know. What I did know though, was that I was feeling both anxious and excited. I had some mild cramping around 5 days after transfer and this lasted for about 3 days. I had a slightly raised temperature, but all of that could have been down to those pesky pessaries! 

August 1st 2011

My husband and I decide that we can’t wait any longer. I know we said we would stick it out until our official test date but we just couldn’t. We hated the not knowing feeling. We needed to know! We decided that we would test tomorrow. The consultant had told us that we could test 10 days after transfer, so this is what we decided to do. 

Although the clinic had given us a home pregnancy test, we went out and bought two more. We decided that we would use the two we bought from the supermarket tomorrow and then use the one from the clinic on our official test date. 

August 2nd, 2011. Testing, testing, one, two, three!

05.30am. I was awake and desperate to test! I woke my husband, much to his delight! Grabbing a pregnancy test, I wandered into the bathroom and, well, you know, I peed! 

Before I even had a chance to pull up my pants, my husband came in, walked straight past me and picked up the pregnancy test! 

Here is what he saw…..

Our Pee Stick!


My husband said “We’re pregnant!”

Climbing back into bed, we hugged, we cried, we laughed and then we cried some more! 

Was it true? Were we actually pregnant or had it all been a dream?

No doubt about it though, two very strong positive lines! They appeared so quickly! 

I couldn’t go back to sleep! I didn’t know what to do with myself! I was tired but I couldn’t sleep! 

We were over the moon, on cloud 9, you name it we were feeling it! 

Could there really be a baby growing inside me? A tiny little human being?! 

We used the second pregnancy test up the following day.

The line gets stronger!

Then we used the third one up on our official test date, August 5th, 2011.

Our 3 pee sticks!

All came up positive! We were pregnant!

I called the clinic to tell them our news and we were booked in for a scan on August 18th 2011, where we hoped to see our babies heartbeat.


  • Lynsey

    July 24, 2012 at 9:15 am

    It was 4.5 years ago so i don't remember all the details but i remember the agony of the 2 week wait, it seemed an eternity!! I was so nervous about having our 2 embryo's put back in, walking back to the car afterwards i remember thinking, quick i need to sit down just incase they fall out, lol, which i know can't happen but I didn't want to do anything to decrease our chances! I tried not to think about it but it was always on my mind, we finally got to pregnancy test day, which for us was a blood test at the hosptial in the morning and then we had to wait a few hours for the results. We couldn't wait so we did a urine test that morning, i was so nervous, i saw a very faint line…….but the line was barely visable so i wasn't sure……we waited to 2pm to make the phone call to the hospital and they confirmed that i was pregnant!!!!!!!! Totally overwhelmed, I just couldn't believe it 🙂 We were so so happy. She gave me the reading of the HCG, which was higher than expected but it didn't register why until we had our first scan!!!!

    1. Anonymous

      April 9, 2013 at 10:27 pm

      Aww lovely 🙂 me an my fella are waiting on our 2 week we won't know till next wednesday I've bought a chocolate gateau/cake an I dunno if I can eat it or not with egg bein innit I'm just not sure on wat to eat if its ok while I've had the embryo implant 5 days ago :/ help please thankyou is it ok for me to have a piece?

    2. Emily

      April 10, 2013 at 12:24 pm

      Thanks for your comment! I hope your get a positive result. Please let us know how you get on. I'm sure it will be fine to eat as I imagine the egg is cooked? x

  • Twinmummyanddaddy

    July 24, 2012 at 12:16 pm

    Hi Lynsey. I remember being exactly the same! After embryo transfer I really needed to pee but I didn't want to just in case I somehow flushed them out! Congratulations by the way x

  • Chelsea MsMummy

    July 24, 2012 at 5:53 pm

    Great post! When I had Beboo I used LOADS of tests. I love you captured it all 🙂 x

  • Twinmummyanddaddy

    July 24, 2012 at 5:57 pm

    Thanks Chelsea! I had to take the pictures so I believed it was true!! xx

  • Anonymous

    February 15, 2013 at 12:05 pm

    your posts have given me so much joy and hope as I sit in my car in front of my Dr office waiting for the door to open . Today my husband and I will find out if we will have a little one in our future. This is our third tme. Thanks for sharin

    1. Emily

      February 16, 2013 at 12:45 pm

      Hello, thanks for your comment! I'm glad our posts have helped. I hope everything went well with the doctors, please let us know. Thinking of you xx

    2. Anonymous

      March 9, 2013 at 10:06 pm

      Hi, also on a 2ww. blood test scheduled for 19th march 2013. praying for a positive result after a failed first ivf cycle December 2012. Still getting ovarian cysts but doctor says they are normal. Its a tough road and can consume you so much. currently on progesterone gel and fematab.Its comforting to know that others are going through similar circumstances and it can keep you sane. How did you get on?

    3. Anonymous

      March 17, 2013 at 12:52 pm

      Hi dear,any cramps so far.? Gud luck for your test on the 19th . Mine also on the th19th

    4. Anonymous

      March 21, 2013 at 2:09 pm

      Mine was not successful double hurt and can.t stop crying ,i don't have any embryos left

    5. Anonymous

      March 22, 2013 at 6:50 am


    6. Emily

      March 22, 2013 at 7:24 pm

      Good luck hun. Please keep us updated xxx

    7. Anonymous

      March 24, 2013 at 11:06 pm

      Hi, sorry for the late reply. I am very sorry that you were not successful. My heart goes out to you. I know exactly how you feel. My blood test was negative on the 19th march 2013. I did a couple of pregnancy tests during the 2ww and around day 10 I tested which looked like a positive although line was very faint but visible. not sure re cramps due to being on progesterone can mimic pregnancy symptoms so didnt take note of any cramping etc In my own mind i carried out these tests to prepare myself early for the result and also to have a plan in mind if no success. After day 10 of 2ww all pregnancy tests resulted in a negative. I am still quite upset, especially going to work every day, listening to people talking about their kids and longing for a baby of my own and then to hear that a relative is pregnant it can hurt so much. It's heartbreaking at times and can destroy you. I havent socialised as much as I used to. Just haven't had the interest especially after a second failed cycle. Myself and my husband have no embryo's left and we have decided to be referred to another clinic. I hope it will keep me positive starting afresh and getting another opinion. Please stay focussed and keep trying, thinking of you, Keep in touch!

    8. Anonymous

      March 25, 2013 at 6:59 pm

      Thanx gal my test is on March 27 2013 Im insane. Did 5 failled ivf last year. I keep on praying. im so stressed i cant stop criying and i know it is not good. Please guys pray 4 me and i will also pray 4 u and athers.

    9. Anonymous

      March 31, 2013 at 9:32 pm

      How did you get on with your test march 27TH? I'm sorry to hear you had 5 failed cycles. i've had two failed cycles but something inside me encourages me to keep trying. I will start afresh in a new clinic and hopefully I will get a success. My dream was to have three children before we knew we had problems. Now I hope for one. Out shopping the other day to take my mind off the situation and all I can see are pregnant women. You just can't escape the baby issue. Good look and hope you got a positive. take care!

  • Anonymous

    February 26, 2013 at 10:41 pm

    Its so good to see good stories I have to lose 2 more stone by June then I can have treatment this keeps me going can't Waite for my turn just hope after all my hard work I get a pregnancy first time lost 3stone already thanks and happy for you

    1. Emily

      February 27, 2013 at 1:16 pm

      Hi! Thanks for your comment! Congrats on your weight loss. Please keep us updated on your treatment when the time comes. All the best xxx

  • Anonymous

    March 14, 2013 at 10:41 am

    Hi,thnx for sharing your story with us,you just helped me .I just did the embryo tranfere 5days back i am waiting for the 10 days to do the test but hey it seems as if its too far.i'm stressed and i'm trying not to think about it but it happens.

    1. Anonymous

      March 21, 2013 at 2:11 pm

      Failed my IVF

    2. Emily

      March 22, 2013 at 7:23 pm

      I'm so sorry to hear that hun. Thinking of you xxx

  • Anonymous

    March 21, 2013 at 9:40 pm

    Hi, Thanks for sharing your experiance.

    1. Emily

      March 22, 2013 at 7:23 pm

      You're welcome xxx

  • Anonymous

    March 26, 2013 at 8:48 pm

    I have had 4 attemps at IVF, lost twins at 13 weeks and baby at 22 weeks. Now on my 5 and last attempt. Waiting the 2 weeks should know on April 3.

    1. Emily

      April 7, 2013 at 1:01 pm

      I'm so sorry to hear about your twins and baby. I cannot begin to imagine what you have been through and how that must have felt. I hope your test was positive xxx

  • Anonymous

    April 3, 2013 at 3:43 pm

    My first attempt on icsi, 5 day blastocyst transfer on 26th march, awaiting blood test on 8/4/13. Already did a hot test this morning which came out negative. Feeling very anxious, trying not to spot symptoms. no implantation bleeding, just tired, needing to use the bathroom, am currenrly on progesterone.Should I be worried?

    1. Emily

      April 7, 2013 at 1:02 pm

      Wishing you all the best for your test tomorrow. I'll be thinking of you, please let us know how you get on. It's so hard not to symptom spot. I wouldn't be worried. Some people have no symptoms at all, whereas others have lots. It's so different for everyone xxx

  • Anonymous

    April 4, 2013 at 6:00 pm

    My second attempt at IVF. Had a failed cycle last year October and was very depressed. Just concluded a cycle and now the TWW. I have been having cramps off and on. Test is on 15th. Pray this cycle works. Pray that God make us all happy. Baby dust to you all.

    1. Emily

      April 7, 2013 at 1:03 pm

      I'm sorry to hear about your failed cycle, I hope you are feeling better now and that this cycle will be successful for you. Cramps could be a sign of implantation. Please keep us updated xxx

  • Anonymous

    April 5, 2013 at 11:43 pm

    wer going for blood test on the 15th aswell. failed FET in december which i found really upsetting didnt think it would effect me so much! good look to us both fingers crossed. this will b longest 2 wks of my life! no more embryos left and cant afford another fresh last chance fr awhile. lovely post emily thanku fr sharing x

    1. Emily

      April 7, 2013 at 1:05 pm

      It must have been very upsetting for you. Until, you have been through and experienced IVF, you really can't imagine what it it like, can you. The two week wait is hard and I was very impatient. I hope this cycle was successful for you, please keep us updated xxx

  • Anonymous

    April 8, 2013 at 6:50 pm

    wish you the very best on the 15th. Can i give a little advise though, please try not to focus on symptoms you may be feeling because I myself convinced myself that I was pregnant because any discomfort/pains i felt I thought to myself great im pregnant but was told progesterone can mimic pregnancy symptoms. I was devastated getting a negative blood test result having done two ivf cycles.Im going to try again!

    1. Emily

      April 10, 2013 at 12:22 pm

      Thanks for your comment! I agree but it can be so hard not to symptom spot. I said I wouldn't but that's all I thought about. Sorry to hear your cycle was unsuccessful. I wish you all the best for your next treatment xxx

    2. Anonymous

      April 15, 2013 at 8:47 am

      Be positive and don't give up.i had 2 failed fresh embryo transfer but the 3rd is a success.i am currenty 3- 4 weeks pregnant. I don't know what to feel coz i don't want to over excite.i feel still on leave from work.and i am taking things easy at home.the nurse told me its ok to go back to work and walking is good but no heavy lifting.but we decided il go back to work after i have my scan.

  • Anonymous

    April 15, 2013 at 12:10 pm

    Hello Ladies, congrats to u all. Just ended my 2wks wait today. Had the test and was told I was slightly positive. Was told to continue inserting my cyclogest for one more week then come for anoda test. Mean while I've been having menstrual cramps quite some times. Pls has any one been tested for 3wks before? Just being curious.

    1. Emily

      April 15, 2013 at 6:55 pm

      Congratulations! A positive is a positive! How are you feeling?

  • Anonymous

    April 15, 2013 at 4:06 pm

    Hi ladies start my 2ww on Thursday can't wait this is my first frozen cycle and finding it much better than fresh I have already had 2 BFN's from fresh and got mild ohss both times and was just so I'll but this time I am ready but so scared in some ways want the 2ww to last a forever as don't want another bad result but just keeping positive and wishing all you lovely ladies and your dh's all the luck and baby dust in the world x x luv leanne

    1. Emily

      April 15, 2013 at 6:57 pm

      Hi Leanne! Thanks for your comment! I hope your 2ww has a happy ending, please keep us updated. Try to think positive xxx

  • Nickie

    April 17, 2013 at 7:53 pm

    Hi,first time in a fertility forum.its good to read about other peoples storys,gives me a bit of hope. Im 31 and was told last year i have no eggs. Tobsay i was shocked was an understatement. After a lot of tears and dramatic 'why me's ??' me and my partner decided we would go ahead with egg was our only way.we chose a clinic in prague.i am currently on day 5 of my 2ww and its killing me.its all i can think about i really have to wait 14 days??

    1. Emily

      April 18, 2013 at 6:17 am

      Hi Nickie, thanks for your comment. Sorry to hear about your eggs, that must have been hard. The 2ww is tough, did you have a day 3 or 5 transfer? I tested on day 10 with a 5 day transfer. Wishing you all the best xx

  • Emily

    April 18, 2013 at 6:22 am

    Hi Ladies, I just wanted to let you know that there is a forum on this blog if you want to chat about your treatment etc rather than leaving comments on this post as the forum will notify you of any replies etc. If you are on a laptop simply click the Forum Menu at the top of the page. If you are using a tablet or mobile device you'll need to scroll to the top of this page and click on the home button which should make a drop down menu appear, then click on Forum. If you have any questions about how to use the forum, please let me know either by leaving a comment on this page or you can email me at

    Wishing you all the best xxx

  • Anonymous

    April 18, 2013 at 11:32 am

    Well ladies I am pupo just had my frosties replaced 2 blasts and on the way home from the clinic laying in the back of the car will let you know how it all goes and I'll join forum any tips for helping implantation very much welcome speak soon wish me luck x x Leanne x x

    1. Emily

      April 18, 2013 at 2:24 pm

      Hi Leanne, congrats on being PUPO. I had two blasts and had twins so you never know you could have twins too! A small glass of not from concentrate pineapple juice a day can help with implantation. What is your test date? Good luck, keep us updated xxx

  • Emily

    April 18, 2013 at 2:25 pm

    Hi Ladies, feel free to chat in the forum here:

  • Anonymous

    April 20, 2013 at 10:00 pm

    Hi of course I'll keep you posted resting loads but have had mild cramps on and off think I did with 2failed fresh cycles but not this early on so did you have that with your fet and also had like bubbling in my abdomen like little air bubbles? Speak soon Leanne x

  • Anonymous

    April 20, 2013 at 10:02 pm

    Sorry forgot to add test date is 2nd may wasn't sure if to do hpt before that Leanne x x

    1. Emily

      April 22, 2013 at 10:04 am

      Hi Leanne! Just wanted to wish you all the best for the 2nd May xx

  • Anonymous

    April 23, 2013 at 5:00 am

    Im currently in the 2ww and Im fighting the urge to pee on a stick, Im only 1 week into the 2ww….This is by far the hardest thing about IVF

    1. Emily

      April 23, 2013 at 12:17 pm

      It's so hard trying to resist the urge. I know how you feel, I remember like it was yesterday. Try and hold out a little longer, even if you do test early that's fine but you don't want to test too early as that could really play with your emotions. It is one of the hardest parts of IVF. Please let me know the outcome. Good luck hun xx

  • Anonymous

    April 24, 2013 at 8:33 am

    Dear Emily ,

    My result will Come on 26th April I am terrified……this is my 5th ivf …..I am 40 now. I don't have a single symptom. I am taking progestrone injection every day. No discharge also coming….my vagina is perfect no over rejection of progestrone. Only light egg white discharge at time( very mild. 1-2 drop is the only symptom) I feel my stomach is empty……would I get a positive result?

    1. Emily

      April 24, 2013 at 1:32 pm

      Hi, thanks for your comment. I hope you get a positive result. I didn't have any symptoms either so that's not necessarily a bad thing. Please keep us updated xx

  • Emily

    April 24, 2013 at 1:30 pm

    Apologies Sherly I'm not sure how I deleted your comment

  • Anonymous

    April 26, 2013 at 10:16 am

    Hiya Emily
    It's Leanne I couldn't resist the urge and on day 8dp5dt I tested wich was yesterday I poas and to my astonishment it's positive and I have done another 3 at all different times and all positive so hopefully after 2failed fresh cycles this frozen cycle is the one I've been waiting for have had cramps on and off and last 2 days had very light spotting brownish so hope thats normal o must say fet's are brilliant so much easier and less stressful on your body so hoping my 2 snow babies are here to stay x x:-D

  • Anonymous

    April 27, 2013 at 5:50 pm

    Dear Emily,

    Thanks a lot for your comment, as I told u earlier…..I did't check on 26 th . I checked today. I got positive result………I believe in god's miracle now……!!!!!!!so finally after 4th ivf……the 5th one is the lucky one……please remember me in your prayers….if any one need any help call me as SA……and send mail

  • Anonymous

    May 13, 2013 at 8:32 pm

    Hi… i am 12dpt 3dt and bfn.. still there is a chance?i was so devastated i could not tell my husband. My beta is not until 3 days. I have cramping on and off.. my boobs hurt on and off but nipples are normal..feeling hot and very tired.

  • Anonymous

    June 26, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    hi anonymous may 13th 13.32 , i understand how you feel.. am 33, i just completed my 14 days week drove me nuts…some of the ladies we were doing the test with had gone for their blood test at the clinic on tuesday(its wed today).. i was abit of a chicken and decided to do it elsewhre because i didnt want to deal with the humilation of the nurse who i really dont like .. doing the test elsewhere was not a good idea as they only detected serum pdt and not my result turned out negative – me being an emotional wreck drov to coffee shop had a nice slice of chocolate cake and capucchinno.. came home cried, depressed in bed, i did other bad things also ..later i was informed by a friend that i could still be pg since the test didnt detect you can imagine how gulty im feeling after sinning,i even didnt take the progesterone thinking my cycl failed… am going tomorroow to do a hcg test at the same clinic.. if i get a bfn, well, life goes on..i will just go back to the same coffee shop and have anothr slice of cake!

    good luck ladies.. keep a positive mind, this world is unpredicable, we just have to deal with this kind of shit unfortunately.

    1. Emily

      June 26, 2013 at 7:05 pm

      Hi, thanks for your comment. I really hope you get your BFP. Please let us know. All the best xxx

  • lady5

    November 29, 2013 at 2:50 pm

    Hi ladys I had an embryo implant 8 days ago of 2 eggs and not feeling anything yet is that normal I did a home preg test and its neg so does that mean my ivf did not word we don't have any eggs left

  • Anonymous

    January 4, 2014 at 12:45 pm

    Hi I am on my 10 days after my second FET. First one failed which was last November 2013.
    I am having pain like menstrual pain. My blood test is on the 10 Jan. Is this something I am to worry about. Thank you.

  • Stacy Savage

    March 21, 2014 at 6:54 am

    Hi I thought I would tell you my Ivf treatment I had a 5 day blastacyst 4 weeks ago and I am pregnant it is my 3rd attempt of icsi I had 2 icsi 3 day transfer and they were both positive but I had 2 miscarriages. This time this doctors said they will try a 5 day transfer and after the transfer I had implantation bleeding on and off for a day then I had cramp I thought I lost it again but I am 4-5 weeks now so fingers crossed and good luck to everyone ivf treatment is overwhelming and stressful sending you some baby dust

  • Anonymous

    June 12, 2014 at 12:38 pm

    I am in my 2nd cycle after 1st cycle failure in Feb 2014. This time and last time , I had only 7 eggs retrived and 3-4 fertilized. First time none servived by 5d. This time doctor transfered 2 on 3d. I am 10 day after 3d transfer. Today having cramps like period cramps…hoping its not negative…blood test is tomorrow. Dr. told me I dont have much eggs left… i am 39.

  • lily

    February 26, 2016 at 11:50 am

    my first ivf cycle failure in 2014, now once again for 2nd cycle i hope this time i get positive result.

    1. Nek

      November 22, 2016 at 11:18 am

      Hi Lily, good luck on your 2nd cycle! I just had my 2nd ET (1 embryo) yesterday and due to test on 3 Dec. I was told that it’s a top qaulit embryo so my husband & I are very hopeful that this is the one. I’m back at work today keeping myself busy. Unfortunately, just received a call from the embyrologist that none of my other eggs were good enough to freeze so if this doesn’t work then it’s back to square one. This is my first time on a forum but it’s very comforting to know that I’m not alone and others know what I’m going through.
      Wishing you all the best Lily. X

  • Danielle Wolfe

    January 29, 2017 at 2:50 am

    I am 3 days post embryo transfer. Bloated, tired, and thirsty. This is my 2nd ivf attempt. Used all of my frozen embryos. I had 3 blasts transferred with one already hatching. I know its early but did a hpt test today and it was negative. Concerned.

    1. Emily

      January 29, 2017 at 9:33 am

      Hi Danielle, thanks for your comment. It’s possible that it’s too early for a positive result to be picked up. I’d wait another 7-10 days and test again. Wishing you all the best xx

  • Annie

    March 3, 2017 at 3:58 am

    Hey all,
    Frozen 3 embryo transfer today is 9dp from 6dpt brown discharge and cramping since day 1…too tensed for what result wud b…test on 8/3/2017…dr.told me to start duphaston 10mg 2 tablets thrice a day…. Hope this works out plz pray

    1. Emily

      March 3, 2017 at 7:06 am

      Thinking of you Annie. Sending positive vibes xx

  • Jane Lawson

    March 15, 2017 at 7:33 am

    Just done a test 7dpt 5dt and got a negative. Could I still be pregnant? Really struggling this time as 3rd time ices. Had 3 good blastocyst put in and had embryogem and a endometrial scratch. Really tearful and bad cramps!!!

    1. Emily

      March 15, 2017 at 7:41 am

      It’s possible that it’s too early. We tested on 10dpt. Maybe wait another a few days? Thinking of you x

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